The FriendFund blog
For the moments when you want to be there, but aren’t sure where to start. Practical ideas for supporting the people you love.
A good place to start · Supporting a friend
Start a kind conversation, offer specific help, and respect your friend's choices. Practical steps and messages for a difficult moment.
Choosing a platform
Compare anonymous nominations and support on FriendFund with GoFundMe's fundraiser and donor privacy settings. Help someone without making them ask publicly.
Choosing a platform
Compare supporter privacy on FriendFund and Ko-fi. Learn how anonymous nominations and support differ from a creator page for tips, memberships, and sales.
Choosing a platform
Compare FriendFund's anonymous nominations and support with Patreon's creator memberships. See which approach fits your relationship, privacy needs, and budget.
Choosing a platform
Explore GoFundMe alternatives for individuals, including FriendFund's anonymous nominations and support. Compare privacy, fees, and when each platform fits.
Giving quietly
Explore discreet ways to help someone, understand the limits of anonymous giving, and choose an approach that respects their privacy and choices.
Organizing a circle
Organize a small circle of support with your friend's consent. Choose an approach, write a clear invitation, and keep expectations and privacy in view.
Everyday care
Meals are one way to help. Explore thoughtful alternatives, from groceries and rides to small check-ins that continue after the first busy weeks.